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What is avoidant-style coping?

Avoidant-style coping or avoidance coping is a maladaptive coping skill. It is the act of minimizing, denying, or avoiding the trigger causing stress. Avoidance coping stems from an escapist mentality in which the individual feels they can “run away” from their problems. For example, someone who engages in avoidance coping might call in sick the day they are supposed to have a challenging conversation at work. Other forms of avoidance coping include rumination, procrastination, and passive aggressiveness. 

How does avoidant-style coping affect people?

Avoidant-style coping is a maladaptive coping skill because it does not solve anything. Many people engage in avoidant-style coping because they help them feel better and even safer in the moment; others engage in these behaviors because they might not know of another way to deal with stress. It is important to understand when we engage in avoidance coping because it can cause more issues for us in the long run. This form of coping can cause people to have increased anxiety and depression, irritability, and even emotional dysregulation.

How can people deal with avoidant-style coping?

The best way to overcome avoidant-style coping is to learn healthier and active coping skills. Active coping skills are ways to deal with or confront the issue instead of avoiding it. There are two types of active coping skills: cognitive and behavioral. Cognitive active coping involves challenging and changing your cognitions (i.e., changing how you think about the problem). Behavioral active coping means directly addressing the issue (e.g., having a tough conversation with your loved one). Working together with your therapist can help you develop coping skills that will help you overcome stressors.

This page is also part of the Roamers Therapy Glossary; a collection of mental-health related definitions that are written by our therapists.

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